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Writing a cancer survivor?

Asked by: Jason Abercrombie

What to say to someone who is a cancer survivor?

Don’t minimize their experience. Try not to say, “Don’t worry, you’ll be fine.” You don’t know that. Instead say, “I’m really sorry,” or “I hope it will be okay.” And don’t refer to his or her cancer as “the good cancer.” These statements downplay what he or she is going through.

How do you write a letter to a cancer survivor?

5 steps for writing a letter to someone with cancer:

  1. Step 1: How do I begin? …
  2. Step 2: Acknowledge their situation and let them know they are not alone. …
  3. Step 3: Share a story. …
  4. Step 4: Add some inspiration. …
  5. Step 5: Add love.

How do you honor a cancer survivor?

What’s the best way to honor a cancer survivor?

  1. Find an adventure. Head to a waterpark. Hike a mountain. Take a walk on a beach.
  2. Create a unique celebration that honors something specific about the cancer survivor.
  3. Donate to a cancer organization or volunteer at one.
  4. Participate in a cancer run or walk.

How do I write a cancer experience?

Here are a few tips on penning your thoughts after diagnosis.

  1. Start a blog. Try setting up a blog to tell everyone how and what you’re doing. …
  2. Write for yourself. If a blog isn’t your thing, try keeping a log or journal for yourself about your cancer experience. …
  3. Seek out support.

What do I write in a cancer survivor card?

These are the 33 heart-warming messages:

  1. You are stronger than you think. Cancer can take away all of my physical abilities. …
  2. World Cancer Day – Together, it’s possible. “20% of something is better than 100% of nothing.” Live the life you love. …
  3. What cancer cannot do – cancer is so limited. It cannot cripple love.

What is a good quote for cancer?

Cancer is a part of our life, but it’s not our whole life.” “There’s almost always something to smile about.” “You can do anything you set your mind to.” “When cancer happens, you don’t put life on hold.

What do you say to someone who just finished chemo?

How to Know What to Say to Cancer Survivors and Patients



  • Don’t Be Unrealistically Positive.
  • Don’t Tell a Story About Someone You Know Who Beat Cancer.
  • Don’t Make It About You (or Go MIA)
  • Don’t Give Unsolicited Recommendations.

Where can I share my cancer story?

Share Your Story Submissions

CURE® accepts submissions of personal essays from readers relating to their own cancer experience.

What actually is cancer?

Cancer is a disease caused when cells divide uncontrollably and spread into surrounding tissues. Cancer is caused by changes to DNA. Most cancer-causing DNA changes occur in sections of DNA called genes. These changes are also called genetic changes.

How do I tell my friend I have cancer?

Telling people about the cancer



  1. During the first conversation, introduce the subject gradually. …
  2. Tell them in the way that feels best for you. …
  3. Ask what they already know. …
  4. Give the information in small chunks. …
  5. Do not worry about silences. …
  6. Say what you need to say. …
  7. Be truthful. …
  8. Think about which issues are most important to you.

What are the emotional stages of cancer?

The Five Stages of Dealing with a Cancer Diagnosis

  • State 1: Denial. …
  • Stage 2: Anger. …
  • Stage 3: Bargaining. …
  • Stage 4: Sadness and depression. …
  • Stage 5: Acceptance.

How do you break the news from cancer?

Use the words cancer or death. Allow silence and tears, and avoid the urge to talk to overcome your own discomfort. Proceed at the patient’s pace. Have the patient tell you his or her understanding of what you have said.