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Writing a love interest for my hero

How do you write a good love interest?

Your love interest should exist as a fully-formed individual, with a life outside of the protagonist’s story. Readers don’t necessarily need to see this life play out on the page, of course, but it should be implied. A little backstory here, a quick mention of career goals or family trouble there. You get the gist.

How do you write a romantic hero?

He needs redeeming qualities and traits. He is somebody readers can fall in love with.



The Romantic Hero

  1. He should have a strong name.
  2. He should be good-looking – rugged at worst.
  3. He is tall.
  4. He is independently wealthy.
  5. He is in control.
  6. He is intrinsically lonely – this allows the relationship to develop.



How do you write a character falling in love?

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  1. 1 Don’t Rush Your Characters.
  2. 2 Get the Dating Right.
  3. 3 Balance the Physical and Emotional Attractions.
  4. 4 Make Sure the Love Interest Is Flawed in Some Way.
  5. 5 Make Sure the Romance Fits Into the Main Plot.
  6. 6 Start Off With a Meet-Cute.
  7. 7 Make Them Care About Something Other Than Each Other.

How do you introduce a love interest in a story?

Introduce the Love Interest



The protagonist shouldn’t immediately love him or, even if she does, there should be something that gives her pause (age, relationship, etc.). Make the reader fall in love with him, too. It’s not enough for the heroine to love him, the reader needs to get it.

How do you write a love note to a guy?

How to write a love letter to your partner

  1. Be ready to get vulnerable.
  2. Start out the letter with a personal greeting.
  3. Say why you’re writing the letter.
  4. Tell them why you love them and/or being with them.
  5. Use storytelling.
  6. Close the letter warmly.
  7. Consider whether it’s the right gesture.
  8. Start with an attention grabber.

How do you express interest in writing?

How do you write an expression of interest?

  1. Add contact details, date, salutation and letter’s purpose.
  2. Introduce yourself.
  3. Describe your background.
  4. Write a positive conclusion.



What to say to make him feel like a hero?

What to say to a guy to make him feel like a hero?

  1. Ask for his help.
  2. Compliment him often.
  3. Show gratitude.
  4. Praise him in public.
  5. Support his goals.
  6. Be enthusiastic about intimacy.
  7. Create a safe space for his emotions.
  8. Try to limit criticism.


How do you write a men’s POV romance?

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  1. Are action-oriented. Do instead of think about it.
  2. They tend to be less patient.
  3. They like to be in charge.
  4. Are more visual.
  5. Present a confident front.
  6. Say what they mean.
  7. Think about sex more than women and see if differently.
  8. See conversations as a means to exchange information.

What is a typical Romantic hero like?


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What is someone’s love interest?

love interest (plural love interests) (film, literature) One who is of interest as a (potential) partner in love.